Decisions!!!

I never thought that life was just very simple... I always thought things are and could be complicated... There are so many things that I couldn't control, but then again, I could be in full control...
See I or even others may look at life as complicated, hard, painful, and other things, and its completely true until I choose to make a decision...
Life is full of decisions, and if one's not made then one's life ceases to exist. Every day, and every moment we all make our decisions. Whatever decisions these are, it then determines what happens to us. Wether be in an accident, get into trouble, gain respect, earn money, pass the exams, make it on time for engagements or commitments and even feel happy or sad...
There may be an instance that a person decided to leave the house earlier than the time he's expected to leave for work, then he gets into an accident... What if? he didn't leave earlier? what could have happened if he left on time or later or even earlier than the time that he left? Even if its just for a couple of seconds...
Would he be in an accident? Maybe not, the car that might have hit him could've passed alrady or even did not reach that point of hitting him...
Funny but true...
Sometimes, the question may be, what if I didn't drop by that gas station? I shouldn't have lost my cell in that select shop if i didn't...
See these simple things are affected by every small decision made...
There are also instances where one is at prison or isolation but sometimes I see that they could be happy. There are also times that the person may be poor or even really in poverty but then they are more happier, even if they are in the slums than the people in exclusive villages. There may also be times that a country so poor can be more happier than of that rich countries.
These examples are reality. There may also be the break up factor with an EX, there can also be work or school pressure, there can also be family or peer pressure or some other things that's bothering us right now that makes one sad, depressed or even angry.
I realized that this is sadness or happiness is just a state of mind... One thing that can always free us wether from prison, isolation, depression, saddness, pressure, poverty, etc. is again decision...
Making decisions for yourself would always be beneficial to one. Its hard to do but possible to. Another reality is that one can feel sad about something but then this doesn't change the situation... Depression doesn't get back the EX... Feeling pressured doesn't change how the world treats you...
Change has to come from you... Make a decision... Accept the situation that you couldn't change for now... Then be glad... I guess its better to feel glad than sad... Coz either way reality or the world still doesn't change for you... Feeling glad would actually feel better and make you achieve much much more... Optimism...
We loose control sometimes but letting go is better.
"No control is full control"
The more that one lets go of things he cannot control... The more he is the master of him/herself...
Being free from worries, sadness, negativity and other problems...
"Why am I free? coz I decided to be"
Don't allow your feelings to be in complete control of you... Be in control of your feelings...
This doesn't become an excuse to escape responsibilities... Nor this doesn't become an excuse to step over other people... Its for personal happiness...
Doing things for oneself... But with concern for others...
Did you already make your right decisions?
Hope you did...