Lessons in Love

One thing I learned from falling in love is that its not easy...
Some people told me that falling in love feels good... Some say it hurts... Some say that its sacrifice... Some say that its worth the world... Some even say I can't believe I am feeling this or even Out of everyone Why ____________???
Well... Its really something...
Like in Philosophy love is explained... Although I forgot how its explained there... Maybe you guys could do the research...
But then in reality today... A lot of people goes through this...
Me myself, I really couldn't explain it...
Sometimes, I made thoughts about this...
I thought that..........
"Once You've Fallen in Love You Already Lost"
-- that is if you don't plan to get married one day.
"Its Was Just A Feeling You Were Looking For When You Met A Person"
-- There are days that we feel lonely and we thought that I found a connection with that person... Hah!!! I guess I just wanted to...
He or She's just lucky that you were feeling like that on that day...
The thing is...
Things don't happen if you don't permit it to...
Like no one could make you feel inferior without you consent...
Like grades does not fail if you don't allow it to...
Like I wouldn't get into an accident if I just listened to myself and left the house earlier or later...
A lot of LIKES... The point is that everything only happens if we permit or give it consent... Everything happens if we want it to... Everything if we allow it to...
In short DECISIONS...
Life? its full of it (decisions)
There was a time I was in a party. There was this guy and I guess he's in his early 60's and he was with his wife who I think is in her late 50's... So the guy then goes to the bar to get himself a cone of ice cream, but then another thing that surprised me was that he even got his wife her cone of ice cream...
Watching it made me see the child in them. I thought that....
Huh?! Does this still happen in old age? They are like teenagers or young couples being sweet with each other...
How come they are like this to each other? They're so old yet they still love each other?
Is that really love? How? They both are wrinkly?
Maybe they don't even make out anymore...
I then made enquiries and my own research.
I came to realize that...
Love can really be hard, it can be sweet, it can be meaningful, it can be full of surprises, it can be happy, it can be sad, it can be exciting, it can be stressful and a lot of other it can be's...
In this case... Marriage... Its a bind that keeps people in working out their differences... Especially with children... It keeps people together... A ruined marriage could actually be saved just because of the kids... If the parents aren't selfish...
Love's hard...
But then its something that we all take risk in and just feel it... We just allow ourselves to immerse in this because we want to and I think its completely normal...
But I guess its something that we're not supposed to be looking for... But we just find it... Because, love's supposed to be natural and not imposed by our minds' depravity so that it could be real...
That's why a lot of realistic people date a couple of times and not get into bed with these people in one night... Its really to find the perfect pair...
So... Its not bad to date... Its actually something that's done to get that thing you are looking for...
Be realistic... Sometimes, a little flirting won't hurt... Its completely normal to get our hearts broken sometimes...
Like in life, "Its not how we fall, but how we stand up".
The important thing is how we live life and enjoy every bit of it... Not being a prisoner of love alone...
I'm not saying love ain't good, coz there's so many way to...
But sometimes, its healthy to be feeling that good feeling of the flirting stage or some people call it KILIG or whatever life has to offer...
In short, ENJOY LIFE...
There's a lot of things in it...
Maybe your already missing out a lot of things... Don't you think?